Like I already said, please refrain from posting in threads that have been inactive for over 6 months unless you have new information that can contribute to the topic. Doing so is referred to as grave digging or necromancy and it's not that practice isn't appreciated on most forums.
The question here was about mourning hats and has already been answered so I'm closing this thread.
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